Do I have a problem?

Have you ever thought you needed help for your sexual behavior or pornography use?
That you’d be better off if you didn’t keep “giving in”?
That sex or pornography are controlling you?
Have you ever tried to stop or limit doing what you felt was wrong in your sexual behavior and pornography?
Do you resort to sex and pornographyto escape, relieve anxiety, or because you can’t cope?
Do you feel guilt, remorse or depression after acting out sexually?
Has your pursuit of pornography and sex become more compulsive?
Does pornography interfere with relations with your spouse?
Do you have to resort to images or memories during sex?
Does an irresistible impulse arise when the other party makes the overtures or sex is offered?
Do you keep going from one “relationship” or lover to another?
Do you feel the “right relationship” would help you stop lusting, masturbating, or being so promiscuous?
Do you have a destructive need—a desperate sexual or emotional need for someone?
Does pursuit of sex make you careless for yourself or the welfare of your family or others?
Has your effectiveness or concentration decreased as sex has become more compulsive?
Do you lose time from work for it?
Do you turn to a lower environment when pursuing sex?
Do you want to get away from the sex partner as soon as possible after the act?
Although your spouse is sexually compatible, do you still masturbate or have sex with others?
Have you ever been arrested for a sex-related offense?

HOW BIG IS THE PROBLEM?

Over 40 million Americans are regular visitors to porn sites. 28,258 users are watching pornography every second, on one porn site alone.

47% of families in the United States reported that pornography is a problem in their home.

57% of pastors say porn addiction is the most damaging issue in their congregation.

CHAD ANDERSON,